Q&A... 009

Masarap ba magmahal?

:: Yes. Especially when the one you love, loves you back.

Mahirap ba ma-in love sa taong may iba na?

:: Another yes. Since he's already taken, you really can't have him. Unless of course you're willing to throw everything away (including your reputation and your morals) and face all the consequences that comes with loving someone who already have someone else. 

Mahirap ba kapag may taong sobrang mahal ka pero hindi mo naman mahal?

:: Yep. You feel somewhat guilty that you can't reciprocate his feelings. You end up wondering why you couldn't look at him in the same way he looks at you.

Mahirap ba 'pag mahal mo, mahal ka, pero hindi kayo?

:: Should be. Otherwise, why wouldn't you be together if you both love each other, right? There must be a big reason why you're not together.

Mahirap ba 'pag pinagpanggap kang gf/bf ng mahal mo para pagselosin ang mahal niya?

:: Of course. Pretending to be the girlfriend of someone whom you really wish to be your boyfriend is just plain... SAD. 

Can lovers be friends after the break up?

:: Depends on how the break up was. If it ended in good terms, then possibly, give and take a few years, they can be friends again. But when there's cheating involve, it'll take a lot more time for the two to even become acquaintances or much worse -acknowledge knowing each other. 

Ano sasabihin mo sa isang tao kung ayaw niyang maniwalang mahal mo siya?

:: "If you don't want to believe me, it's up to you. I've done my part, now you should do yours."

Ano mas masakit, iniwan ka or niloko ka?

:: I'd rather have someone leave me (because of irreconcilable differences) than have someone cheat on me, then leave me.

Was there a time na talagang pinag-aralan mong mahalin ang isang tao?

:: I haven't. But sometimes I do wonder if it's really possible to learn to love someone. Sometimes I think it is a bit unfair.

Ano masasabi mo sa taong sobrang seloso/selosa?

:: Give it a rest. Too much jealousy can ruin a relationship. Learn to trust your significant other. It helps.

Ano masasabi mo sa taong nagpipigil sa love?

:: Don't hold back. Love someone freely, unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. By doing so, you're also setting yourself free.

Ano masasabi mo sa mga playboy/playgirl?

:: I believe in karma. What goes around, comes around.

Ano masasabi mo sa mga salawahan?

:: Be true. Stay true. To your feelings, to others, to yourself.

Ano masasabi mo sa mga mang-aagaw?

:: You can't really have (entirely) what was never yours in the first place.

Ano masasabi mo sa mga nanloko sa'yo?

:: Your loss, not mine.

Two-timer ka ba?

:: Nope. I have crushes every now and then, but when it comes to relationships, I'm a one-man woman. 

Ano ang karamihang 'first impression' sa'yo?

:: Snobbish. But it's okay since even I have to admit that I really give off that vibe.

Mabilis ka ba magka-crush sa isang tao?

:: Yup. Since I almost always go for the looks first (if he fits my ideal man, etc.).

Seloso/Selosa ka ba?

:: Every girl has a jealous side to her. I can tolerate crushes, closeness, etc. but when it becomes excessive, like borderline obsession, then... feel my wrath! Actually, I've read somewhere that a jealous woman can beat a private investigator when it comes to, well, checking the loyalty of her significant other. Hehe.

Madali ka bang makalimot?

:: Now? Sometimes. I guess it's a sign of aging.

Importante: Friends or Family?

:: Family. Because no matter what happens to you, they will never leave or neglect you. In good times or bad times, they will be there. You cannot choose who you are related to anyway.

Naniniwala ka ba sa Love?

:: Of course. Someday, I will find someone who will be sure that I am the one.

Ma-pride ka ba?

:: I hate to admit it, but yes. Pride... it's all I have. Hahaha.

Are you a text addict?

:: Nope. I seldom use my cellphone. 

Sinong mahal mo aside from your family?

:: Friends will be my safe answer.

Describe yourself in one word.

:: I'm unique. I don't think I have met anyone like me. Hahahaha.

Choose: steady boyfriend/girlfriend, mutual understanding (MU), or fling?

:: Fling is nice when you're a teenager, MU's are fun during your early twenties... but as you grow older, steady relationship is what you'll be asking, praying, even begging for.

Did it ever reach a point when you really really wanted to have someone as your bf/gf then suddenly you switched your thoughts to leaving him/her instead?

:: I haven't experienced that. At least, not yet. It's not like I'm planning to anyway.

What do you do when you're sad?

:: I listen to sad songs, cry my heart out, and then eat ice cream. 

What do you do when you're mad?

:: I listen to rock music, move around, and just keep myself busy in order to avoid punching anyone... ^__^