Photo-A-Day: January 2013

January's photo-a-day is here! I really love playing along on this project. Check out Fat Mum Slim's blog for details if you also want to play along.

Abby's X-Mas Wishlist

I'm finally done with this year's Christmas wishlist! Yey!!! After much contemplation on my part, I came up with a list that is both practical and attainable. Meaning, I would have the resources to purchase any of them if it wasn't given to me as a gift. Hehe. ; )

Anything that is left on this list after the holidays are done will be subject for evaluation for inclusion on my birthday wishlist. Lol.

In no particular order:

• A new phone (preferably an android phone for Instagram use.) - I'm not particular with the brand of the phone. Sure, an iPhone would be much appreciated but anything that would allow me to post pictures on instagram, send text messages, and make phone calls would do.

• Lauren Conrad's L.A. Candy book series (the whole set) - I like Lauren. I just do. I'm like totally inspired by her now. Which is why I wanted to read the books she's written. And what better way to start by reading her first novel, right?

• Heide Klum's "Me" perfume. - A bit pricey and somewhat hard to find here in the Philippines. But... if there's a will, there's a way! (a.k.a Paypal).

• New set of accessories: necklace, watch, bracelet, earrings, ring, and sunglasses. - Just a piece of each would do.

• New pair of jeans (preferably skinny jeans). - the last pair I bought was eight months ago. And the fabric is starting to stretch since I've been using it constantly for work. About time to find its alternate.

• Red lipstick. - my new obsession. I recently discovered that since I have dark lips, I sort of look sickly without a hint of color on my lips. So in order to prevent people telling me that I look like I'm about to faint, I tried using red lipstick. And it definitely did wonders for my appearance.

• New pair of shoes (preferably ballet flats) - I'm not a big fan of stilletto/high-heels (though I would love to try them someday). So, flats are like my feet's best friend. I can move around freely in them.

• A new bag - again, any type or brand would do. I just wanted something to add to my collection. Although I've been eyeing the red baby satchel I saw from a friend...

• Yellow umbrella. - if red lipstick is my new make-up obsession, then yellow is my new color obsession. This year, I saw the color yellow in a different light. Hehe.

• UST jacket (varsity jacket or the black quadricentennial jacket) - any alumni will surely want one. If I can't have them by this year, I'll surely buy them once I got my overtime pay from work.

• Alarm clock - I need one. Badly. Anyone who knows me well would understand why I had to have one.

So, that's about it. No over the top, hard to find items on this list. Hope to cross off even half of the items listed above by the end of this year. I have to admit that I haven't been a nice kid this year, but Santa... I'm constantly trying to improve myself. :)

*photos courtesy of google image, lauren-conrad.net, myhealthandbeautyshop.com.au and make-upforlife.net.

Christmas Bucket List

It's the first day of December. Counting today, it's exactly 25 days before Christmas. Christmas has always been one of my favorite (if not my most favorite) holiday. When I was younger, a lot younger that is, I always look forward for the month of December since they used to feature Holiday-themed cartoons all day. I remember not wanting to attend school because I will miss watching a show (there were no re-runs), and hated mandatory sleep in the afternoons because of that. Another thing I like about Christmas are my new clothes, shoes, and sometimes, toys which my mom would buy from Cinderella (that's a name of a store). And during Christmas eve, I look forward to spending it at my lola's side of the family where there are games, prizes, gifts, money, lots of food, and laughter filling the air. But then I grew up. 

I have to admit that during the past couple of years, I treated Christmas like an ordinary holiday. It seems that the magic has worn off. Aside from no longer believing in Santa Claus, it seems that I outgrew the spirit of Christmas. I no longer watch the cartoons, I no longer go caroling, and we no longer celebrate Christmas at that side of the family. But even as I am saying it now, the little kid in me still smiles when she sees Christmas decorations, and even if I no longer receive gifts for Christmas, my heart still jumps at seeing gifts (even if they're not mine) under the Christmas tree. Watching Home Alone re-runs on TV still completes my holidays. Christmas lanterns are still my favorite decorations. And hearing Christmas carols still fills my heart with joy. So I want to rekindle that flame. That flame that I had in me when I was twenty or so years younger - a time when Christmas for me is magical. So, how do I bring it back?

Abby's Christmas Bucket List.

1. Watch Home Alone 1-3.
2. Make A Christmas Wishlist.
3. Buy a gift for myself.
4. Attend the "Simbang Gabi". And complete it when possible.
5. Hear Christmas Carols.
6. Go to places where there are a lot of Christmas decorations.
7. Watch Christmas movies.
8. Eat Bibingka and puto bungbung?
9. Go to Star City.
10. Wrap a Christmas present.
11. Visit my inaanak.
12. Spend time with family.
13. Holiday dinner with friends.
14. Write a letter to Santa.
15. Create an ornament.
16. Starbucks special holiday drinks.
17. Drink hot choco/cocoa.
18. Get family Christmas pictures.
19. Eat chestnuts.
20. Stuff Christmas stocking with candies and chocolates.
21. Take a picture with Santa.
22. Buy a candy cane.
23. Read the Nativity.
24. Take a holiday photo.
25. Read a Christmas story.
26. Watch a Metro Manila Film Fest (MMFF) entry.
27. Look at Christmas lights.
28. Attend a Christmas bazaar.
29. Watch a parade.
30. Purchase different holiday-themed treats.

So, that's it. My very own Christmas bucket list. Hope to get them done before the year ends. And maybe at which time, I would have confessed that I still believe in Santa, his elves, reindeer, and yes... North Pole. ♥

XOXO,

AbbyMercs ♥

Photo-A-Day: December

It's finally up! Can't wait to do this month's photo-a-day challenge. Check out FatMumSlim's blog for the details if you want to play along with this challenge. :)

Sharing Love This Christmas...

Today, I participated in a gift-giving program organized by our city's vice mayor for the less fortunate kids in Parañaque. Earlier this afternoon, while we were having merienda (that's around 3PM), a lady came inside our office carrying two small x-mas trees. The trees were not adorned by the usual plastic christmas tree ornaments we were all used to seeing, but with neon green angel-shaped papers. A closer look and it revealed to contain names of kids and the baranggay where they came from at the back of the cut-outs. 

I found out that every year, an employee will get to choose from the trees the name(s) of kids that they want to give a gift to for Christmas  You can choose one or two or as many as you want, and you can even select the gender. One tree contain names of girls and the other, the names of boys. The kids' ages ranged from seven to eleven years old and they all came from District 2 of Parañaque City. When I asked why they don't have kids from District 1 (my district), it dawned upon me that the answer lies in the coming election. Now, I wouldn't go talking about that or my political views for the time being. Anyway, I chose two kids, a girl (Erika, 9 yrs. old) and a boy (Joshua, 10 yrs. old) as my gift recipient. I based my selection according to which names I liked the most and didn't even realize, until I was actually writing my name as the "santa", that they were both from Barangay Sun Valley. I wanted to change it but I like the names!!! Hehe. Erika and Joshua. Erika is a name that I personally like, and Joshua for Joshua Jackson, whom I'm a fan of since his Mighty Ducks days. 

I've never done this kind of thing before, so I'm very excited (and a bit anxious) at the thought of making kids (other than my siblings and cousins) happy this coming Christmas -even with just a simple gift. There were actually no rules regarding the gifts. There's no minimum nor maximum amount, no guidelines, no wishlist... so it's really up to you if you want to go all-out and be generous or be simple and practical. I have to admit that I'm at a loss as to what I'll be giving. But one thing's for sure, I want to give something that is useful and something that they will appreciate. No worries though as I still have three more weeks to figure something out. ♥

Photo A Day Challenge

I recently discovered this project while I was searching the web for an alternative to the 365-day photo project that I'm supposed to be doing. Most of the search results have linked me to Fat Mum Slim's website, and in there, I found this:

I know I'm a late participant (as in five days late), but I still want to give it a try. I'm also thinking of doing the photo-a-day challenges from January to October just for practice -and for fun! Just to see how creative I can be. And instead of using my phone (Instagram), I'll be using my trusty old digital camera. It's a sure way of testing how good I've become at taking pictures. It's kinda like being enrolled in a photography class. Wish me luck!

Test for Dementia

*From an email I got from a friend seven years ago.

Below are four questions and a bonus question. You have to answer them instantly. You can't take your time. You have to answer them immediately, okay?

Let's find out how clever you really are.

This blog got a brand new look! 

Yep... I finally gave in. I have to admit that I was a bit hesitant about changing the entire look of this blog (template, background, colors, fonts, etc.) at first, but when I saw the final output... wow! Definitely worth it. With all the changes happening on blogger, I decided that it's about time that I incorporate those changes in my blog as well (sharing, templates, google+). I've been looking at other blogs, and I realize that my own blog is sooooo "neanderthal". Hahaha. I've been using the same template from six years ago!!! That was around the time that a blank template is still available from the template options, and changing the look of my blog required me to change it via HTML. That in itself proved to be a difficult task, especially when my knowledge of html is limited to what they taught me in high school. But now that more template designs became available on blogger, changing the overall look of a blog had also become a lot more easier. Now, I can change the look of this blog anytime I wanted to.

Cheers!

XOXO♥

Q&A... 026

Is sex best in the morning, afternoon, or evening?

:: Morning and evening. :)

What side of the bed do you sleep on?

:: Left side of the bed.

Pork, beef, or chicken?

:: Chicken!

Have you ever had to pull over on the side of the road to puke?

:: Nope. I haven't done this one yet. Fortunately.

What leg do you put in your pants first when pulling them up?

:: Right?

Candles or incense?

:: Scented candles. I haven't tried the scented incense so I don't know which would I prefer more.

Do you dance when no one is watching?

:: Yes, all the time.

Did you play doctor when you were little?

:: I think I did. 

Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?

:: It's against my principles. 

Stove top or microwave?

:: Microwave. I think it's easier and faster.

Would you rather have your car or your house dirty?

:: My house. Driving around in a dirty car speaks volumes about yourself since other people can see you and your dirty car. If your house is dirty, you could just lock the door so that no one else can see it. 

Shower or bath?

:: Bath. Honestly, I don't know the difference between the two. Don't they mean the same thing.

Do you pee in the shower?

:: Yes, it's normal.

Mexican or Chinese food?

:: Mexican... yum!

Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?

:: I prefer aggressive ones in bed. It's all about the performance.

Do you love someone on your top friends?

:: Nope. Not on my top friends, just on my friends list.

Corn dogs or hot dogs?

:: Hot dogs!

Your favorite restaurant.

:: Minsok, an authentic Korean restaurant in Makati. 

What did you have for lunch today?

:: One piece fried chicken and rice from Jollibee.

Which do you prefer, iceberg or romaine lettuce?

:: I don't know any of the two. And besides they're both vegetables so, no, I don't want any of them.

When did you last fell down?

:: December. I fainted from nervousness.

Have you ever wished someone were dead?

:: Yes, more than a couple of times. 

Love or money?

:: Money. Hehe.

Credit cards or Cash?

:: Cash. What's the use of credit cards if you can't pay them back anyway since you don't have cash.

Has there ever been anyone in your family you wish wasn't?

:: Nope. I love everyone in our family.

Oreos or Vanilla Wafers?

:: Oreos!!!

How do you like your steak cooked?

:: Grilled... hahaha... I don't eat anything that's half-cooked so you wouldn't hear me saying rare or medium-rare.

How do you like your eggs?

:: Scrambled.

Have you ever knocked someone off their feet in a fight?

:: Haven't. During fights, I usually just use my mouth. Never my fists. Although there were a couple of people I wish I could have just punched right in the face.

Would you rather have a root canal or minor surgery?

:: Root canal?

Would you shave your entire body (including your head)?

:: No. Not my head.

Would you rather have head lice or STD?

:: head lice. why would I prefer a sexually transmitted disease over a parasite that can be treated faster anyway.

What is your favorite candy?

:: Runts. Or any candy that have chocolate or strawberry in it.

Have your ever been to a strip club?

:: Yes, in Thailand.

Ever been to a bar?

:: Yes.

Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club?

:: Nope. We always obey 'club' rules.

Ever been so drunk you had to be carried out of somewhere?

:: Nope.

Kissed someone of the same sex?

:: Nope.

Thrown up from drinking so much?

:: Yes, it was probably the first and last time it happened to me.

Had sex in the car?

:: Yes.

Had sex in a movie theater?

:: Nope.

Had sex in the bathroom?

:: Nope.

Had sex at work?

:: Nope.

Have you ever been in an "adult" store?

:: Nope.

Bought something from an adult store?

:: Since I've never been to one, the answer is none.

Have you spent over $200 in one visit to the adult store?

:: As mentioned earlier, I've never been to one.

Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with?

:: Yes.

Have you ever been caught having sex?

:: Nope

Have you ever kissed a stranger?

:: Nope.

Does anyone have naughty pictures of you?

:: Nope. I behave well in public.

Q&A... 025

Were you smiling when you woke up this morning?

:: I can't remember. Probably not.

When was the last time you met someone new?

:: A few months ago, on my first day at my new job.

When did you last eat pizza?

:: A year ago?

Do you drink beer?

:: Yes, occasionally. 

Do you wash your own clothes?

:: No, my mom does the laundry at home. (Somehow this question made me feel like I'm a bad daughter...)

Are you any good at poker?

:: I don't know how to play poker.

What do you want more than anything?

:: To travel the world.

Are you tired?

:: A little.

Besides your bed, what is your favorite thing in your room?

:: My computer.

Pepsi or Coke?

:: Coke. Actually, I used to like Pepsi more, but now my taste buds prefers Coke.

Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?

:: No. I'm big on trust. If I took him back, I'll just keep on doubting him anyway, so why prolong the suffering?

Do you enjoy piercings and tattoos?

:: I'm all for henna tattoos. I actually wanted to get another piercing on my ears but my mom doesn't approve of it. I'm a bit conservative so I'm saying 'no' to permanent tattoos and any other piercing other than the ears.

Taco Bell or McDonald's?

:: I haven't tried Taco Bell's so I won't be able to make a choice. But I do love McDonald's fries!♥

Are you restless?

:: A bit. Especially when I'm stressed.

Is your computer desktop or a laptop?

:: Desktop. I feel more comfortable using it at home. 

Want to be a princess?

:: If that means that I'll be married to someone like Prince William, why not?

Do you believe that dreams come true?

:: If you will it, you can achieve it.

Last song you heard?

:: The man who can't be moved by The Script. I totally love this song!

Do you like Batman?

:: Yes. Because he's super rich and he has all these amazing gadgets.

Who is in the room with you?

:: My siblings. My room is like an extension of their room.

What are you wearing on your foot?

:: Slippers.

What was the last thing you ate?

:: Toasted bread with cheezwiz. Tastes like pizza actually!

What were you doing before this?

:: Playing games on FB.

What is the closest item near you that is blue?

:: A picture frame of my role model (Sarah Michelle Gellar) on my night stand.

What instant messaging service do you use?

:: Yahoo! messenger and FB messenger

What is your favorite website?

:: Lately, it's Pinterest and StumbleUpon

Whose house were you last night?

:: My house.

What do you wear more, jeans or sweatpants?

:: Jeans. Although admittedly, sweatpants are more comfortable.

What's the last movie you watched?

:: Lord of the Rings?

What do you currently hear right now?

:: K-Pop playlist and songs from the band 'The Script'

When did you last buy a new pair of pants?

:: Last April. Bought a new pair because I couldn't fit into my old ones. I got bigger. :(

Where's your favorite place to be?

:: My room. Other than my room, somewhere close to nature (the beach, field, etc.)

Have you ever heard of the band, Our Lady Peace?

:: Yes, one of my favorite rock bands.

Where do you sleep?

:: In the comforts of my own bed.

Where do you shop the most?

:: SM Department Store and at Penshoppe.

Where did you get the shirt you're wearing?

:: I'm currently wearing my old high school PE shirt.

Coach purse or NFL game tickets?

:: NFL game tickets!!!

Where was your profile pic taken?

:: During our funday in Subic, five years ago.

Why did you pick your background?

:: It was edited by a friend of mine. You couldn't see the background but we were inside a van.

Are you happy with where you are?

:: Not really. 

Do you believe love at first sight exists?

:: Yes, happened to me a couple of times. 

Do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?

:: Yes, couples should always make time for one another and celebrate anniversaries.

Do you believe that you can change someone?

:: No, change is a choice, and that choice lies within that person. Change shouldn't be imposed against one's will.

What are you going to do after you do this survey?

:: Answer a few more surveys or spend more time on Pinterest.

Q&A... 024

What would you do if a hobo jumped out of the bushes and stole your wallet?

:: I would scream for help... and try to defend myself AND my wallet. Money isn't the issue here but the wallet I'm using holds a lot of memories for me. So if I can talk him out of stealing my wallet and just giving him cash instead, I'll definitely do it! 

What would you do if you found out that you were adopted?

:: I would try to find my birth parents. It's not because I want to be with them, it's more of wanting to know the reason why they gave me away. The feeling of being unwanted sucks. 

What would you do if Rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer, showed up in your yard?

:: I would join him in his journey back to North Pole.

Do you like eggs?

:: Yes. 

How do you like your eggs?

:: Scrambled.

Would you like to put pepper on your eggs?

:: Haven't tried it. 

Do you like cheese?

:: A lot! If I can put cheese in all of my food, I will do it.

What if the cheese you were eating turned into a monkey butt? Would that disturb you?

:: WTH! Of course it will.

When are you going to visit your fairy god mother?

:: Shouldn't my fairy god mother be the one to visit me instead?

Do you like potatoes?

:: Yes. I like them fried.

Maybe you'd like your potatoes with some mayonnaise?

:: Not a big fan of mayonnaise.

What would you do if a penguin ate all your cheetos?

:: I'll just go and buy another one.

Would you kick it?

:: Nah. I'm against animal cruelty.

Do you agree that penguins are awesome?

:: They're cute and if they're like the ones on Happy Feet, I would totally keep one as a pet. Although I don't think they can withstand the weather in the Philippines.

And so are monkey right?

:: Some monkeys are awesome. They're almost like humans. 

What do you do when the aliens come to suck out your brain?

:: Hide. And if I see an opportunity, I'd escape from them. I'll run as far and as fast as possible.

What do you think of Britney Spears?

:: She's a talented artist. And props to her for pulling herself back together.

Do you like to dance in the rain wearing a bikini?

:: I like to dance in the rain but not in my bikini.

Do you also like to eat ham smothered in hot and spicy cow fetuses?

:: No. That's disgusting.

What would you say if a stranger came up to you and grabbed your ass?

:: Slap him. 

Would this upset you?

:: Of course it will upset me. I was just disrespected!

How do you feel about chicken?

:: Without them, there wouldn't be eggs and there wouldn't be fried chicken. Hehe.

What would you do if you found an elf in your bed at night?

:: If it's a good one, make friends with it. I surely hope it looks like the ones on LOTR. Legolas... yey!

Q&A... 023

Longest relationship? What happened?

:: Six years. Continuous. Eleven years in total. Pressure from family and peers to get married.

Shortest relationship? What happened?

:: None.

Mabilis ka ba ma-fall?

:: Yes. And that has become a problem for me.

Mabilis ka ba makalimot?

:: Nope. Like I always say, 'I forgive, but I don't forget.'

Ano ang nagpapasaya sa'yo?

:: A lot of things can make me happy, but from all those, my favorite is hearing the laughter of my siblings. 

Nae-enjoy mo ba ang life mo ngayon?

:: Not really. It could be better.

Masaya ka ba sa work mo?

:: Sort of. I'm happy because I'm no longer stressed, but I think my mind and body is looking for 'real' work.

Ano pinakamatagal mong work?

:: Research analyst for almost six years.

Ano naman ang pinaka-maiksi mong naging work?

:: None. My first job lasted for almost six years.

Ano pinakagusto mong gawin? Bakit?

:: Travel. There's so much more to discover about places, people, culture, food, customs, and the language of a certain country.

Ano ginagawa mo kapag nalulungkot ka?

:: I eat ice cream or I watch something funny on my PC.

May nagsabi na ba sa'yo na mahalaga ka sa kanya?

:: Yes.

Ano ang pinaka-sweet na nasabi sa'yo na hindi mo makakalimutan?

:: "Idol kita. Bilib ako sa'yo." ~I like this more than sweet messages because it shows that that person trusts me, supports me, and believes in me.

Ano una mong napapansin sa isang tao?

:: The looks always comes first. The way he/she carries himself/herself. And his/her manners.

Pinaka-turn-off para sa'yo?

:: People pretending to be someone they're not. Trying to look cool when it doesn't even suit them.

Sweet smile o malagkit na tingin?

:: Look of lust. Hahaha.

May special ba sa buhay mo ngayon?

:: Yes. Other than my family and friends, there's someone that is special to me.

Ano ang meron sya at special sya sa'yo?

:: A lot. I could probably write a book about why he's special.

Maniniwala ka ba kapag may nagsabi sa'yo na mahal ka niya pero may bf/gf sya?

:: It can be true. You can fall in love with someone else even if you're in a relationship... 

Ano ang song na nagpapaiyak sa'yo?

:: Dance With My Father, Tears in Heaven

May song ba na ayaw mo marinig?

:: I'm not a big fan of pinoy rap... (except for Francis M and Andrew E)

Ano naman ang song na nagpapasaya sa'yo?

:: Anything song that I can dance to.

Memorable place?

:: University of Santo Tomas, Malate Catholic School Gym, Hong Kong

Favorite movie.

:: The Mighty Ducks, Schindler's List, The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Home Alone... etc.

Month na pinaka-ayaw mo?

:: July. Too much rain for my liking.

Q&A... 022

Lifted from my old Friendster account. This one's from Annie.

Say something about your love life.

:: Non-existent. Well, almost.

Fave song/s as of now.

:: Teen Top's 'To You' and Wonder Girls' 'Like This'

Fave TV show as of now.

:: The Vampire Diaries, The Walking Dead, Pretty Little Liars

Last movie you saw.

:: Snow White and the Huntsman in the movie theater.

Most expensive object you bought with your own money.

:: Personal Computer/Desktop.

Yosi or beer? Explain.

:: Beer. I don't smoke so I don't really like cigarettes.

Have you ever fallen in love with a friend?

:: Nope. I have a habit of "friend-zoning" guys that I'm not attracted to.

What song is currently playing?

:: Korean playlist.

Any pets?

:: None.

May nasuntok ka na ba?

:: My brother when we were little. You know when you often have a fight with your siblings whenever they tease you about something. 

Ano yung sabi nung sinuntok mo?

:: Nothing. He retaliated and punched me back.

Which do you prefer? Jollibee or McDo?

:: McDo for fries and burger and Jollibee for spaghetti. 

Wendy's or KFC?

:: Wendy's for bacon mushroom melt and KFC for the chicken and hotshots.

Ever broken someone's heart?

:: I don't remember having broken someone else's heart. 

Ever had your heart broken?

:: Yes. and quite often. :(

What did you do to the person who broke your heart?

:: Nothing. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate. I'd rather move on with my life.

What's inside your pocket?

:: Nothing right now. But the pants I was wearing earlier contain lip balm, lipstick and my ID.

Fave past time?

:: Blogging and watching my favorite TV series.

Biggest regret in life.

:: Nothing. I have learned not to regret anything in life.

Worst experience you've been through.

:: That's between me, myself and I.

Best place you'd rather be.

:: Paris? In reality, I'd rather be where I am now - in the comforts of my room.

Last time you cried.

:: A few months ago. Something about what my mother told me.

Anong ginawa mo ngayong araw na ito?

:: Work.

Huling tinext mo?

:: Pam and Jog? Something to do with our weekly dinner and movie night.

Describe yourself in one-two words.

:: Unique and Artistic.

Huling ginawa mo kagabi bago matulog?

:: Facebook. It's becoming a routine.

Nakapunta ka na ba sa Batangas?

:: A lot. Especially during family outings.

Huling inutos sa'yo ng magulang mo?

:: Can't remember really.

Magulo ba diyan sa lugar nyo?

:: Nope. We live in a very safe, quiet compound where I knew most, if not all, of our neighbors.

Happy ka ba ngayon? Bakit?

:: Happy, but could be happier. Why? Just because.

Nakapunta ka na ba sa Malabon Zoo?

:: Not yet. Planning to.

Huli mong kinain?

:: Rice

Huli mong ininom?

:: Chillz Coffee Jelly.

Naka-experience ka na ba ng lindol?

:: Yes, a few times. 

Kailan ka huling sumakay ng elevator?

:: Yesterday?

Anong gagawin mo bukas?

:: Go to work.

Huling tumawag sa'yo sa phone/cp?

:: Jog. Something to do with our weekly dinner.

Anong oras ka natutulog?

:: Around 2 am to 3 am almost every day. And I can stay up until 5 or 7 am on weekends.

Q&A... 021

Single, Taken, Naked or Flirt?

:: Single.

Are you happy with that?

:: Not really.

Would you still kiss your ex?

:: If it's an amicable break-up and we're both not in a relationship with others, then sure... why not?

Have you ever had your heart broken?

:: I felt like I've answered this question a dozen times and my answer remains the same. Yes, I had.

Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is okay?

:: No. Cheating in itself is something bad. It's somewhat equivalent to lying.

Have you ever talked about marriage? with whom?

:: Yes, with a certain someone. And my aunts never failed to remind me that I'm getting older so it's time to settle down. Yeah, right.

Do you want children? How many?

:: Yes. Two boys and two girls to make it even.

If someone liked you right now, would you want them to tell you?

:: Yes, please. I no longer want to guess. I've become more and more impatient.

Do you want someone you can't have?

:: Yes. And that in itself is heartbreaking.

Have you ever been in love?

:: When I think about it, as in really think about it, yes... I've been in love. Sadly though, I couldn't stay in love for long.

Do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?

:: Of course. It's like a reminder of how much you have grown together.

Do you believe that you can change for someone?

:: I can, it's just a matter if I wanted to or not.

Is it a good day?

:: Yes. Could be better, but yeah... it's good enough.

Have you ever broken a heart before?

:: I might have. I'm not quite certain.

Does your ex still have feelings for you?

:: Ask him. He knows.

How many has viewed your profile?

:: I don't keep track of things like that. 

Do you believe in long distance relationships?

:: Yes. As the saying goes, "If there's a will, there's a way." Trust, Fidelity and Loyalty are the keys for the relationship to work.

Q&A... 020

Something totally random.
[ ] You like to eat chicken feet. -Never even tried to eat one before.
[ ] You sing karaoke. -Believe it or not, I have never sang in front of my friends. Even my family hasn't seen me held a microphone and sing karaoke. 
[ ] You've worn glasses ever since you were in fifth grade. -I'm fortunate to have perfect vision.
[X] You'll haggle over something that is not negotiable. -Well, it's worth a try. Sometimes, vendors/sellers need a little push.
[X] You are a math genius. -Haha. I'd like to think that I am. Or was.
[ ] You take showers at night.
[X] You avoid the non-free snacks in hotel rooms. -Of course. You don't want to get held up just because you couldn't pay for your hotel bill because it went out of your budget.
[ ] You say "aiyah!" and "wah!" frequently.
[X] You save grocery bags. -Yes, I used them as trash bags.
[X] You twirl your pen around your fingers. -Out of habit. Only when I'm extremely bored.
[X] You have been taught that wasting food is a sin. -My grandparents told us that there are millions of people who don't have food on their table and some can only afford to have meals at least once a day. "Maraming taong nagugutom sa mundo... maswerte kayo at may kinakain kayo." That's the usual litany if one of us leaves food on the table. And I have it embedded in my mind.
[X] Your dad thinks he can fix everything himself. -I sometimes wonder if it has anything to do with him being an engineering grad. You'll be amazed at the contents of his toolbox! If we have a garage, I think it'll be an extension of a hardware store.
[ ] You beat eggs with chopsticks. -We use forks.
[ ] You like congee with thousand-year-old eggs. -I haven't tried this one! Will definitely add it to my food bucket list.
[X] You have eaten moon cakes.
[X] If you don't live at home, when your parents call, they ask you if you've eaten, even if it's midnight. -My lola does. When I was away in Singapore, I remember having the conversation begin like this: "O, kumain ka na ba?"
[ ] You email/sms your friends, even though you're only ten feet apart.
[ ] You can read traditional Chinese.
[X] Your toothpaste tubes are all squeezed paper-thin before they are thrown away. -In our household, nothing is wasted.
[X] You know what pearl milk teas are.
[ ] You bring fruit with you as a gift when you visit people's homes.
[ ] You have acquired a taste for bitter melon.
[X] You eat every last grain of rice in your bowl, but don't eat the last piece of food on the table.
[ ] Your parents argue with other adults over the dinner bill.
[ ] You love to use coupons.

Q&A... 019

FRIEND CONFESSIONS

Are you jealous of one or more of your friends?

:: A few. Just in terms of them living out their dreams while I'm still trying to figure out mine... 

Have you known any of your friends your whole life?

:: No. Not really. Just twenty years or so. I've met most of my friends in school (grade school, high school, college...) and there's only a few people I've been in contact with constantly. 

Are any of your friends taller than you?

:: Yes. A lot of them. Sadly, I belong to the shorter group (I'm 5'2"). 

Have you ever been ditched by a friend?

:: Quite a few times. But I don't consider them as my friends anymore. I forgive, but I don't forget which makes it harder for me to maintain relationships (even with friends).

Where do your friends live?

:: Mostly in the Philippines? Hehe. Most, if not all, are within Manila.

Have you lost or forgotten a friend's phone number?

:: Lost is more like it, since my phone got stolen a few months ago. 

Have you been to most of your friend's houses?

:: Yes, especially those who lives nearby.

HABIT CONFESSIONS

Do you play with things when nervous?

:: I play with my hair. Yeah, I know it makes me look like I'm crazy. But what can I do? I'm obsessed with my hair. Hehe.

Do you have an odd obsession with knives?

:: Not very fond of them knives. But I'm very good at handling them. 

Do you sleep with the door open or closed?

:: Definitely closed. I easily get scared, so an open door does things to my imagination. It better be close if I wanted to fall asleep fast. Otherwise... hehehe.

Do you bite your nails?

:: No, I don't. C'mon! Just think of all the bacteria/germs you're putting inside your mouth! Gross.

What is your worst habit?

:: I have weird ones, but I don't think any of them can be considered worst. How do you even consider or define a habit as worst?

LOVE CONFESSIONS

Do you currently like someone?

:: Yes, totally. To the point that I constantly find myself thinking of him. 

Do they like you?

:: I don't even know if he knows me. Or if he even knows I exist. :(

Do you get bored of your girlfriend/boyfriend easily?

:: This I got to admit. I plead... Guilty. My friend once told me that I fall in and out of love so easily that it's becoming a lot harder to catch up with my feelings. Does that makes sense?

Has one of your crushes ever called you self-centered before?

:: No. I haven't even been able to strike up a conversation with any of my past crushes. As in those that I actually been a little obsessed with. 

PERSONAL OPINION CONFESSIONS

Who do you want for President?

:: I actually wanted (voted for) Manny Villar, but the current president is my second choice and he has all my support. I just wish people would cut him some slack. It's not like anyone can turn a third world country into a first-world country overnight. He hasn't been done with his term yet, give him a break.

Do you think abortions are horrible?

:: Yes. A child is a blessing, wanted or not. There are hundreds (maybe even thousands) of woman who can't conceive even if they wanted to, and God has given you that gift that most woman wanted, and you're just gonna throw it all away? If you can't raise the child, put the child for adoption. Someday, somewhere, someone will care for that child and give it a home. Besides if you don't wanna get pregnant in the first place, don't do the act. (or at least take precautions!)

Needles aren't so horrible?

:: They're not, but I still don't like them.

You have plenty of secrets?

:: Yes. To stay sane and the feeling of knowing something others don't. It's a thrill. But I must admit that I'm having a lot of them (secrets) lately. I think it's time to reveal some to lighten the load a bit. Hehe. 

HAVE YOU EVER CONFESSIONS

Have you ever fallen up the stairs?

:: Fallen up? Lol. But I fell down the stairs once when I was young. Missed a couple of steps. Nothing serious, though. No broken bones or anything.

Have you ever slapped someone across the face?

:: Yes. Once. And for a petty reason.

Have you ever killed anyone?

:: Nope. But I've murdered a dozen in my mind... hehehe. That's why sometimes... I'm thankful for my imagination. I can do whatever I want inside my head. And no one can sue me about them.

Worn the same clothes for a week straight?

:: If it refers to the clothes not being washed at all, then no, I haven't.

Q&A... 018

Is there someone in your life that you could not survive without?

:: My family.

How many close friends do you have?

:: Less than ten? I do have a lot of friends, but I only have a few people whom I'd say I'm close with.

Who is the most beautiful person you know?

:: Dennisse, a friend of mine from college. She's not only beautiful on the outside, but she also has a good heart, and I'm lucky enough to have been able to spend time with her during our sophomore year, thus, be able to know the amazing side of her.

Most annoying?

:: I won't mention names, but I do know someone who annoys the hell out of me (and the rest of my close friends).

Who in your life has hurt you the most?

:: I'm lucky enough to not have gone through such a horrible ordeal. :)

Is there someone you know you should hate, but you can't?

:: Yes. Love You, but I Hate You. Hate You, but I Love You... ♪♫

Do you like someone as more than a friend right now?

:: None.

What went wrong in your last relationship?

:: Irreconcilable differences?

Do you miss anybody?

:: Yes. I miss hanging out my high school friends and my college friends.

Have you ever lost anybody close to you?

:: My grandfather. He passed away six years ago. 

Is there anyone you trust even though you should not?

:: As 'said person' is the only companion I have right now, I have no choice but trust 'said person' even though I knew that 'said person' has a tendency of blabbing things 'said person' knew 'said person' shouldn't. : )

Who knows you best?

:: Among all my friends (including my best friends), I think Pam knows me the best since we got to spend almost six years working together.

Ever given your all to someone who walked away?

:: I think that this is one problem I have with relationships. I tend to limit my actions (be restrictive) on giving my all in the relationship so as not to get hurt when the relationship ends.

Relationship or Hook-ups?

:: Right now, I'm looking for relationships.

Ever been in love with someone?

:: Of course. 

Need anyone?

:: Not really.

Few close friends or many acquaintances?

:: Few close friends.

Has anybody in your family ever let you down?

:: Yes. It's bound to happen. I've learned to accept that not every family is perfect.

Who have you let down the most?

:: None to that extent.

Who is your best friend of the same sex?

:: Bernice, although I haven't seen her since we graduated from high school, I still consider her my best friend.

Best friend of the opposite sex?

:: None. But I do have a few close friends from the opposite sex -and they're all gay! : )

Ever kissed someone you regretted after?

:: Nope. One thing about me is that I don't regret doing anything (since I've already spent a lot of time thinking of the pros and cons of my actions).

Ever told a member of the opposite sex you loved them?

:: Yes.

Ever had your heart broken?

:: A couple of times, yes.

Ever broken somebody else's?

:: Not sure about this one.

Who do you know is the most ambitious?

:: A certain person I know.

Who is the most frustrating?

:: Again, someone I know.

Who is the loudest?

:: A few friends from my previous work.

Who is the quietest?

:: Joem, a friend from college.

Who is the most genuine?

:: Pam, Jog, Lianne, J-anne, XP

Who has the power to make your world fall apart?

:: Luckily, I haven't entrusted anyone with such power! Hahaha!

Ever love someone that wasn't good for you?

:: It's more like him being TOO good for me... : (

Wanna say something to someone?

:: "Why can't you just choose me instead?" ~my heart's silent appeal.

Wish things could have gone differently with someone?

:: Yes. But things... they happen for a reason...

How's your heart lately?

:: Beating at its normal rate. ♥ 

Q&A... 017

[ A ] Available :: Yes?
[ B ] Birthday :: March 4
[ C ] Crushing :: Mike Cortez
[ D ] Drink you last had :: Water
[ E ] Easiest person to talk to :: Pior
[ F ] Favorite colors :: Green, Red and Black
[ G ] Gummy Bears or Gummy Worms :: Gummy Bears
[ H ] Hometown :: Parañaque
[ I ] Ice Cream Flavor :: Double Dutch
[ J ] Something you say very often :: "Talaga?" (Really?)
[ K ] Killed someone :: Not yet... (May balak?)
[ L ] Lime or Lemonade :: Lemonade
[ M ] Milkshake flavor :: Strawberry
[ N ] Number of siblings :: 5
[ O ] One wish :: To travel the world
[ P ] Person you last commented/messaged :: Pam
[ Q ] Quiet :: Yes. Extremely
[ R ] Reason you smile :: My latest crush
[ S ] Song you last heard :: As Long As You Love Me by Backstreet Boys
[ T ] Telephone number :: 851****
[ U ] Under the rainbow or Under the stars :: Rainbows are very rare, so under the stars would do.
[ V ] Vegetables :: Ick!
[ W ] Worst habit :: Spacing out when I don't want to listen? 
[ X ] X-Rays had :: Three so far.
[ Y ] Your number of friends on facebook :: 690
[ Z ] Zodiac Sign :: Pisces

Q&A... 016

What's the brand of your wristwatch?

:: Casio

What's the brand of your bracelet?

:: Abby. Hehe. I made it myself.

What's the brand of your cellphone?

:: Nokia

What's the brand of your camera?

:: Sony

What's the brand of your bags?

:: Jansport, Nike, Parisian, Heartstrings, Jelly Bean, Adidas

What's the brand of your undies?

:: So-en, Her Bench

What's the brand of your flip-flops?

:: Havaianas, Toeberries

What's the brand of your wallet?

:: Nameless brand. I bought it from a night market in Bangkok.

What's the brand of your perfume?

:: Me by Heide Klum, Penshoppe, Bench, Lewis & Pearl. I'm not big on perfumes.

What's the brand of your shirts?

:: Folded&Hung, Bayo, Penshoppe, Bench, Maldita, Solo, Freeway, Forever 21

What's the brand of your TV?

:: Sony

What's the title of the book you're reading?

:: Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

What's the brand of your shampoo and conditioner?

:: Pantene Pro-V. Sometimes, I use Palmolive or Head and Shoulders.

What's the brand of your facial wash?

:: Ponds

What's the brand of your toothpaste?

:: Colgate, Close Up

What's the brand of your jeans?

:: Jag, Levis, Crissa

What's the brand of your laundry soap?

:: Surf, Ariel

What's the brand of your lotion?

:: Extract, Olay

What's the brand of your printer?

:: HP 

What's the brand of your shoes?

:: Solemate, Nike, Adidas, Parisian

What's the brand of your shower gel?

:: Watsons

What's the brand of your shorts?

:: Jag

What's the brand of your moisturizer or make up remover or both?

:: Clean & Clear

What's the brand of your lip balm?

:: Maybelline, Chapstick

What's the brand of your foundation?

:: Maybelline

What's the brand of your blush on?

:: Maybelline

What's the brand of your lipstick?

:: Maybelline, Careline

What's the brand of your pressed powder?

:: Maybelline

What's the brand of your bikinis?

:: Nothing But Water, Soak

Q&A... 015

I got 48!!!

*Again, lifted from my friendster bulletin board some years ago...

Instructions: 
Get a piece of paper and pen, number it 1-11 (no cheating!). See your results at the end of the test. When you post or send it, put your score as the subject.

1. What shade of hair do you have?
a) dark
b) light
c) middle

2. Out on a date, would you want to:

a) Go to a party

b) Go out to eat

3. What is your favorite color out of:

a) pink

b) yellow

c) baby blue

d) turquoise

4. Pick your favorite hobby out of:

a) talking

b) dancing

c) taking long walks

5. If you could pick a store out of the following, which would it be?

a) Hollister

b) Old Navy

c) Abercrombie

6. What is your favorite place out of the following:

a) Hawaii

b) London

c) Florida

7. During summer, would you rather go to:

a) the beach

b) somewhere cooler

8. What is your birthday month?

a) January

b) February

c) March

d) April

e) May

f) June

g) July

h) August

i) September

j) October

k) November

l) December

9. Would you rather:

a) chill at home

b) go out with friends

10. What is your favorite instrument out of:

a) guitar

b) bass guitar

c) drums

d) triangle

11. Name a person of the opposite sex.

JG

**ANSWERS**

1.
a) dark = sexy (5 points)

b) light = sweet (2 points)

c) middle = hot hot hot (5 points)

2. 

a) Go to a party = playful (2 points)

b) Go out to eat = romantic (5 points)

3. 

a) pink = cute (2 points)

b) yellow = loud (3 points)

c) baby blue = cool (5 points)

d) turquoise = sexy (5 points)

4. 

a) talking = active (2 points)

b) dancing = determined (2 points)

c) taking long walks = daring (5 points)

5. 

a) Hollister = tasteful (7 points)

b) Old Navy = laid back (9 points)

c) Abercrombie = stylish (5 points)

6. 

a) Hawaii = you like being around people (2 points)

b) London = you are quiet and like the cold (2 points)

c) Florida = you like to party (5 points)

7. 

a) the beach = tan, likes the sun (5 points)

b) somewhere cooler = pale and original (2 points)

8. 

a) January = popular (5 points)

b) February = lovely (2 points)

c) March = rebellious (5 points)

d) April = playful (5 points)

e) May = happy (5 points)

f) June = chills a lot (2 points)

g) July = smooth (3 points)

h) August = fun (5 points)

i) September = lovin' the heat (10 points)

j) October = outgoing (3 points)

k) November = pimpin' it (5 points)

l) December = warm (3 points)

9. 

a) chill at home = quiet, romantic (3 points)

b) go out with friends = crazy (5 points)

10. 

a) guitar = eye-catching (5 points)

b) bass guitar = mellow (2 points)

c) drums = crazy (5 points)

d) triangle = simple (2 points)

11. 

This person will fall in LOVE with you.

**SCORES**

Up to 17 = Lousy, get a life!

18 - 20 = Okay

21 - 35 = Rather sexy

36++ = Really Hot... Sexy!

Q&A... 014

Two feelings at the moment?

:: Tired and happy

What are you listening to right now?

:: k-pop playlist... my favorite music from Korean artists

A part of a song lyric that's in your mind right now?

:: baby you light up my world like nobody else... LSS. And I'm not even a big fan of One Direction. Its just that this song has a way of being stuck in my head once I hear it.

What is the highlight of your week?

:: It will probably be the town fiesta this coming Sunday. 

What are you craving to have right now?

:: Tokyo Cafe's Carbonara... yum!

Any unforgettable childhood memory?

:: A stolen first kiss from kindergarten days? I've been thinking about that a lot lately.

A not-so-good childhood memory?

:: When I stepped on a nail (as I jumped from a table in our garden) while pretending to be a gymnast.

Your plans for tomorrow?

:: Go to work.

Are you thinking of someone right now?

:: Yes. I've been thinking a lot about a certain person lately.

Do you party?

:: Yes. I love parties. I even love organizing them.

Do you like twins?

:: Haven't given it much thought.

Are you feeling hungry?

:: Yes. For the past couple of days, I've been feeling rather hungry all the time.

Who do you miss right now?

:: My friends. Especially my college friends, Pior and Izel. I haven't seen them in ages.

Are you in love?

:: Yes. Everyday. ♥

What do you like about night?

:: The moon, the stars, the quietness...

If you were in a farm, what do you want to see?

:: Rice field... a vast landscape full of vegetables, fruits, etc.

How many best friends do you have?

:: I have two. But I haven't seen both since we graduated from high school.

Would you rather get up early or sleep in?

:: Sleep in. I want to get up early, but I couldn't. My bed is just too tempting!

Who do you love?

:: My family, friends, and... ♥

What would you change about your life right now?

:: To be able to have accomplished the things that I thought I would have already done by now.

Would you rather smile over a lie or cry over the truth?

:: Cry over the truth. Because the feeling of being lied to is far worse than knowing the truth. At least when you're done crying you can put it behind you and move on. 

Who was the last person you got into an argument with?

:: A former friend. 

Do you trust people easily?

:: I did when I was young and naive. I thought that everyone was innocent unless proven otherwise. Now, because of being more exposed to the "truth/ways of the world" I've become more suspicious of people's true intentions. 

Could you go a day without eating?

:: No. I love to eat. No matter how many times I told myself that I needed to lose weight, I just couldn't resist the sight and smell of my favorite foods.

How much does looks matter to you?

:: Little. I can honestly say now that I prefer someone who can make me laugh and someone I could have good, meaningful conversations with over a man who just looks good (and does good only in bed).

How do you feel about PDA (Public Display of Affection)?

:: It's normal. Just not too excessive, puh-lease...

Would you rather be mad or sad?

:: I'd rather be sad. I don't like the surge of emotions that overcomes me when I'm mad. I hate feeling guilty afterwards.

Does it take a lot to make you cry?

:: Not really. I cry way too easily. I even cry at will. It's a personal talent. 

Are you tight with your mommy?

:: Yes. My mom and I are much closer now than we were before.

Name one fear that you have.

:: Losing another loved one. I've always told my friends that I'd rather die first than see a member of my family pass away again. Until now, I still cry when I think about my grandfather's sudden death. And it had been six years.

If you need to go to the store a block away, do you walk or drive?

:: Since I do not own a car, I will walk. Besides, even if I do have a car, gasoline nowadays is just too expensive!

Does the thought of marriage scare you?

:: A little. But of course, every girl/woman wishes to be married to a man she wants to spend the rest of her life with.

What did you do today?

:: Went to work.

In 20 years, where do you see yourself?

:: I see myself travelling the world, married to a man I want to be with, and probably have kids of my own.

Who will you choose to die with?

:: As twisted as it may sound, I'd rather die alone.

Q&A... 013

Madali ka bang maimpluwensiyahan?

:: Yes. Which is why I try to surround myself with positive people now.

May lakad ka ba mamaya?

:: Yes.

Saan?

:: Work. 

Ilang taon ka na?

:: I'm already 28. Three more years and I'll be totally off the calendar. Hehe. (That's a running joke when another year is added to your age. It signifies how old you are.)

Anong pinagkakaabalahan mo ngayon?

:: Just the usual. Work, downloading videos, organizing my things...

Malabo ba mata mo?

:: It wasn't perfect as before, but I can still see clearly even from a distance.

Do you love music?

:: Yes. I enjoy listening to different genres. I can even spend time listening to classics, operas, and even new age music.

Saan ka pinanganak?

:: I was born at Santo Tomas University Hospital, Manila.

Saan mo gustong magpakasal?

:: Saint Joseph Parish Church or at Malate Church, a place which I hold dear.

Saan mo gustong mamasyal?

:: Batanes Group of Islands. If it's out of the country, then it would be in Paris, France.

Bakit yan ang pangalan mo?

:: Because my parents gave it to me. It's not like I can choose my name at birth.

Nasubukan mo na bang kumain ng tae?

:: Gross! Ew!

Tumulay/nakatawid ka na ba sa apoy?

:: Nope. And I don't think I could or would if it's not a life or death situation.

Marunong ka ba mag-gitara?

:: Yes, I know how. But I'm not very good at it.

Masungit ka ba o tahimik?

:: I'm a very quiet person. I don't talk unless spoken to. This, however, make people think that I'm mean or snobbish.

Saan ka nag-aaral?

:: Kinder @ Elizabeth Day Care Center; Grade School to High School @ Malate Catholic School; and College @ University of Santo Tomas.

Anung unit ng cellphone mo?

:: Nokia C3

Anung masasabi mo sa taong galit sa'yo?

:: May the force be with you. Hahaha.

Pag meron kang malaking pera, saan mo ito gagamitin?

:: If I have tons of money, I'll probably spend it on my family. If there's an excess, I'd spend it travelling the world. That, or open up a business.

Astig ka ba?

:: I'd like to think that I am.

May load ka ba ngayon?

:: None. I don't usually use my cellphone that often, so I only have load on days when I have to be somewhere or when I'm going out.

Ilang kwarto meron sa bahay niyo?

:: There are six rooms. Three bedrooms, one bathroom, one kitchen, and one living room.

Ginagamit ba lahat yun?

:: Yep. Since there's nine people living in the house, every room is being used. 

Ilan yung sala?

:: Just one.

Mayabang ka ba?

:: Not really. I don't really brag, that's why I dislike people who does.

Kailan bakasyon niyo?

:: When you're already working, you're given 15-days each of vacation and sick leaves. So you can take a vacation any time of the year.

Meron bang basketball court sa lugar niyo?

:: None. Our barangay doesn't even have its own sports complex.

Proud ka ba kasi diyan ka nakatira?

:: Yes. I live in a friendly neighborhood where I knew almost everyone in our compound. And it (our compound) is very much accessible if you want to go anywhere. It's near the airport, near the mall of asia, near the local church, etc.

Q&A... 012

Mabilis ba uminit ulo mo?

:: Not really. I guess it depends on the situation. If it's something that is recurring, then you can expect  me to no longer be able to tolerate excuses and just flare up.

Huling tao na nakausap mo ng seryoso?

:: My friends, Pam and Jog. Mostly about life after I left my previous job.

Kapag late ka-meet mo, anong madalas mong gawin?

:: I often find myself walking around the area -which is why I prefer meeting at the mall or at a bookstore.

Kapag korny joke ng prof niyo, natawa ka ba?

:: Out of respect, yes. Then we try to tease him/her about it afterwards.

May food ba na nagpapasaya sa'yo ngayon?

:: Mini Stop's Chillz. It's a cheap alternative to my everyday Starbucks fix.

Paano kang umarte 'pag nandiyan crush mo?

:: I tend to shy away. I often look the other way which make it more obvious that I like that person.

Kapag may naiyak sa harap mo, ano ginagawa mo?

:: Comfort that person. Then when he or she is ready to speak, I asked what's wrong. And I try to help out when I can.

Anong inaasar sa'yo ng mga kaibigan mo ngayon?

:: Nothing in particular.

Paano ka malasing?

:: I don't usually get drunk easily. So far, the one thing I've done was to lock myself up inside the bathroom to throw up. At least, my friends didn't get to see me throwing up all over the place or acting all crazy.

Pag may nag-I Love You sa'yo, prepared ka na ba?

:: At my age, saying I Love You is already common. It's nothing out of the ordinary. I guess it lost its meaning as I become exposed to it.

May alam ka bang sad song? Ano?

:: Tears in Heaven. There's nothing more heartbreaking than to lose a loved one because of death.

Kapag bored ka sa bahay niyo, anong ginagawa mo?

:: I read. If that doesn't work, I try to arrange/organize my things. If that doesn't work either, I watch movies. But I seldom get bored at home. There's so many things to do inside my room than not having more time to do them is my only problem. Hehe.

Kailan ka mas masaya: noon o ngayon?

:: I'm happy now, but I think I'm a lot happier then. Now, what I feel is more of relief.

Last incident na nangyari?

:: Can't remember. Does starting at my new job counts?

Halata ba 'pag galit ka?

:: Yep. When I'm mad, no matter how many times someone talks to me, I tend to ignore that person. I wouldn't answer and just keep being quiet. So my friends usually knows when it's time to back off.

Sino ang taong nagpapa-ngiti sa'yo palagi?

:: My new crush? 

Malihim ka ba o open ka sa feelings mo?

:: I'm open to my feelings.

Isang bagay na hindi mo katatamarang gawin?

:: Read books and watch my favorite korean shows.

Huling bagay na inireklamo sa'yo ng friend mo?

:: That I don't reply to text messages right away. Sorry!

Movie na nagpapa-relax sa'yo?

:: Feel-good movies, comedies, romantic comedies, movies from my childhood (Tom & Huck, Home Alone, Mighty Ducks, My Girl, etc.)

Pag pinapagalitan ka ng parents mo, ano ginagawa mo?

:: Listen well. Then try to reason out if there's a need to.

Madalas ka bang mabasa ng  ulan?

:: Yes, As I don't really like using an umbrella, I prefer to just use my hoodie/jackets especially if the rainfall isn't all that heavy.

Bagay na interesado ka laging pag-usapan?

:: K-Pop, korean dramas, learning foreign languages and travelling.

Takot ka ba sa ipis?

:: No. (Unless it flies right towards me.)

Sinong huli mong naka-away?

:: A former friend. That was three-years ago. I've been a better person since then.

Anong mas enjoy: foodtrip o soundtrip?

:: Sound trip, since it wouldn't make me fat. 

Recent activity na ikinapagod mo ng sobra?

:: Dancing. Random dancing inside my room to my favorite dance tunes. It's my alternative to exercising.

Outgoing ka ba o home buddy?

:: I'm actually a bit of both. I enjoy going out with friends and I also enjoy having some quality time by myself.

Anong klaseng barkada meron ka?

:: Friends who enjoy having fun and sharing good laughs.

Ano talagang nararamdaman mo ngayon?

:: Slightly getting over depression. 

Latest person in your inbox?

:: Pam.

Sinong iniisip mo ngayon?

:: The one who makes my heart skip a beat whenever I see him. Lol. ♥

Mabilis ka bang magsawa?

:: Sort of.  

Sino kasama mo ngayon?

:: Family. But I'm alone in my room.

May bestfriend ka ba sa opposite sex?

:: None. But I do have a few male friends.

Kung may pagkakataon, posible bang maging kayo?

:: If I ever have a guy best friend, I don't think I can risk the friendship. So my friends are off limits to me.

Sino huli mong naka-text?

:: Pam and Jog, simultaneously.

Sino huling tumawag sa'yo?

:: Joggito.

Sino crush mo ngayon?

:: Well, there's this attorney I often see at work. : ) Don't know his name though.

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

From a forwarded email seven years ago. Lol.

Good: Your wife is pregnant.
Bad: It's triplets.
Ugly: You had a vasectomy five years ago.

Good: Your wife's not talking to you.
Bad: She wants a divorce.
Ugly: She's a lawyer.

Good: Your son is finally maturing.
Bad: He's involved with the woman next door.
Ugly: So are you.

Good: Your son studies a lot in his room.
Bad: You find several porn movies hidden there.
Ugly: You're in them.

Good: Your hubby and you agree, no more kids.
Bad: You can't find your birth control pills.
Ugly: Your 15-year old daughter borrowed them.

Good: Your husband understands fashion.
Bad: He's a cross-dresser.
Ugly: He looks better than you.

Good: You give the "birds and bees" talk to your daughter.
Bad: She keeps interrupting.
Ugly: With corrections.

Good: The postman's early.
Bad: He's wearing fatigues and carrying a shotgun.
Ugly: You gave him nothing for Christmas.

Good: Your son is dating someone new.
Bad: It's another man.
Ugly: He's your best friend.

Good: Your daughter got a new job.
Bad: As a hooker.
Ugly: Your co-workers are her best clients.
Way Ugly: She makes more money than you do.

Q&A... 011

The status of you and the last person you texted?

:: Friends.

What's bothering you right now?

:: Nothing much in particular. Just life in general...

Would you kiss someone to make your bf/gf mad?

:: No. Because I wouldn't want him to do the same. Like they say about life, "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you."

What is in your wallet?

:: Money, credit cards, id pictures, atm, money from countries I visited, a few receipts, IDs

Wallpaper on your computer?

Background on your cellphone?

:: Just an image from one of my cellphone's themes

Listening to?

:: K-Pop

Have you ever kissed anyone named Chase?

:: Nope. I don't even know anyone named Chase in real life. I only know of Chase Crawford. ♥ 

What do you smell like?

:: Cologne. 

Eating?

:: Not right now. 

What's your favorite thing to have on your bed?

:: Pillows. I surround myself with them.  

If you could change something in your life, what would it be?

:: To have a real best friend whom I can confide in?

What do you wear to bed?

:: Loose shirt and a pair of shorts. I haven't worn my pj's for years. I've been too lazy to change into them.

Do you remember your dreams?

:: Most of the time, yes. Especially the good ones. And those you'd want to repeat again.

Who will you sleep with tomorrow?

:: I will sleep with... myself.

Have you ever been gambling?

:: Nope. 

What's something you wish you could understand better?

:: The way the opposite sex thinks. Sometimes you think you knew them, but then they'd do or say something that is completely opposite of what you thought they'd say or do.  

What did you do last night?

:: Facebook, Blogger, Watched Korean variety shows... the usual.

Who do you miss?

:: My friends. I haven't seen them for over a year.

Who is the last person you hugged?

:: Can't remember. Must have been one of my siblings.

Who was the last person you went somewhere with?

:: Since my social life is borderline zero, must have been with a member of my family, somewhere nearby.

Have you kissed anyone on your top/featured friends?

:: None.

What was the last thing you drank?

:: Coffee. As what I've said on my earlier posts, I drink coffee more than I drink water.

Where were you at noon yesterday?

:: At my new workplace.

Who was the last person you visited in the hospital?

:: Haven't been at the hospital in such a long time. First of all, I hate going there. Second, no one I knew had been hospitalized recently. So, my last visit was probably when my grandmother was confined there several years ago.

Do you like someone right now?

:: Yes. ♥